Men – Should You “Multiple” Or “Serial” Date Or Is That A No-No!

Men – Should You “Multiple” Or “Serial” Date Or Is That A No-No!

Article by Mr. Lrx







When I wrote the eReport “How I Got 700 Dates in One Year” it caused a little controversy — usually amongst women.

A lot of women think that multiple or serial dating is a no-no, something that only dysfunctional people do. Well I got news for you. Everything is situational. Anyone that has followed my writings would know that that is my theme.

I would be the first one to agree that a person who “multiple” or “serial” dates with no intention of ever doing anything else would have at least some major “relating” issues.

But, serial dating applied in the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the opposite. Serial dating done to get a better understanding of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you like, and what you like, and what kinds of people like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.

What do you think most parents tell their teenage sons and daughters?

They tell them: “Don’t get serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys.”

Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.

First of all, most adults never followed their parents advice and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of hooking up with the first “acceptable” person who shows them some real interest.

Unfortunately, there is a big difference between “acceptable” and “ideal” and also unfortunately most people usually continue this pattern of hooking up with the first “acceptable” person who comes along well into adulthood.

We call this “compromising” or “settling” and ultimately it leads to unhappiness in relationships, and a failure to understand the opposite sex.

You see there are many different types of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a hell of a lot of people to find that one someone.

Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don’t really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.

The cure is simple. When you date and meet lots of people, sooner or later you figure it out for yourself. It’s a natural process. You get comfortable with people, you realize that everyone is different, and that different types of people like different types of people. Eventually you figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of people you get along with best.

Mom and Dad’s teenage words of wisdom are good for everyone.

I was browsing a website recently and I saw a “snippet” by Stanley R Medley that really drives home the point. Here it is:

On “Dating”

The only reasonI ever gotDivorced isI never went outwith enough womento begin with–kind of put meat a disadvantagewhen it came tounderstanding women.

Sex is a natural thing.If you meet enough womenit comes easy.

But finding the right womenis a little harder.In fact,I’d call it work.

But if you meet enoughwomenSooner or later,One will like you,and you will like one of them.

Hopefullyit’s the same one.

(c)Stanley R. Medley 2007 (From: http://www.stanleyrmedley.com/Snippets.html)

Now Mr. Stanley R. Medley writes with a sense of wisdom and a sense of humor. But the point is he got it right.

I wouldn’t advise anyone to go out of 700 dates in a year for the hell of it, not even 100 dates. But if you want to understand the opposite sex and get a perspective on things, or if you just want to meet that person you’ve always been looking for and then stop and settle down, “multiple” or “serial” dating might just be for you. (C) 2007 Dating To Relating, Inc.



About the Author

Mr L.Rx gives advice to men on how to meet, date, and relate to women. He is also available for private consultation and coaching. Additional information on this topic is available at http://www.DatingToRelating.com

Look For Golf Clubs For Kids

Look For Golf Clubs For Kids

With the popularity that Tiger Woods is gaining nowadays, you must not be shocked that a lot of kids dream of becoming one pro golf player someday. In the past, it was indeed hard for kids to play golf since the equipment and accessories sold for golf were only for the adult players. Those junior players had to cut the golf clubs so that they could play the golf well. With this, a lot of manufacturers have ventured into creating golf clubs that will fit kids. This way, kids can now play the game without so much hassle since they can just go to the store and get the clubs that can match their size. If your kid is interested with the sport, you need to support him for sure. To do it, some tips are available for you so you better keep them in mind. A kid will like to have a junior golf set .

 

ASK A PRO

 

The first thing that you need to do is to ask a pro about some of the most important things that you need to consider. A pro golf player has enough experience to guide you in choosing the right clubs that your kid can use while he is young. It is very important that you ask or consult him so that you will buy the right things that is age appropriate for your kid.

 

HIS SIZE

 

Since kids cannot use the golf clubs for adults, you have to look for one that can fit him. To do this, you need to measure his height and his arm length first. Let him stand up straight and measure the distance from the tip of his hands down to the ground. This is the approximate length of the clubs that he will be using. One thing that you just need to remember though is that you have to give some allowance with the length as the kid may grow fast without you noticing it.

 

LOOK FOR SOURCES

 

It is very important that you look for the best sources or dealers of the clubs that you can buy for him. One thing that you can do is to visit the local specialty shops that surround your place. Look for golf clubs that a kid can use. Ask the personnel from the store to make things easier. There are plenty of websites that you can find online too. Try to visit those sites to save much time and effort. Get the best  junior golf irons.

 

PRICE

 

You must not forget to set the budget or the price of the golf clubs that you will buy for your kid. You must only consider those that you can afford to have. Make the budget as your guide and do not ever go beyond it. It will help you narrow down your choices.

 

In buying golf clubs, you have to consider various things especially if the clubs are for kids. Thus, you have to remember a few tips. Make sure that you always use them as your guide to make things much easier for you. These will certainly help.

 

Josh Santebanes is a father who likes to play golf and billiards. He is also fascinated with airplanes and helicopters. Being a man does not stop him from doing household chores especially in choosing the best tools and accessories that will match the house. He is a father of 3 cute children.

 

How To Buy Discount Golf Clubs Using The Internet

How To Buy Discount Golf Clubs Using The Internet

Golf can be a good hobby and can also provide you with a career that most people just dream of. Playing golf means that you also need to buy a few items that you can use in the game. Golf bags, golf carts, shoes, outfit and golf clubs are some of the most important things that you need. You may find these in stores near your place. One of the most convenient ways that you can buy golf clubs is by using the internet. Online shopping is one thing that you need to be familiar with. Gold clubs are always available online. But you have to remember that it is never easy to choose clubs that you will see online. There are some tips that you always need to remember. You can have junior golf sets.

TYPE

The first thing that you need to think of is the type of golf clubs that you will buy. There are a lot of golf clubs in the market varying in size, purpose, designs and materials used. You have to be sure about the golf  clubs that you will buy since kids may need different golf clubs from adults. Graphite and steel are commonly used in golf clubs. Some of the most popular clubs that are being used even by the professionals are woods, putters and iron. You may need to have junior golf woods.

BROWSE

In order for you to find the best clubs in the internet, you need to browse the internet that you have at home so that you will be able to see different golf clubs that you may prefer to have. Internet shopping is one popular activity that most people do these days. There are websites that cater to a lot of products. You may visit these sites so that you will be able to see the sites that will help you. You can compare the clubs that you will see in one store to the other. One good thing that you need to remember is that it is very much convenient to look for the things that you need to buy without leaving the  comfort of your home. You will be able to save a lot of money if you just know how to use these sites.

PRICE

The price of one club may differ from the others. The materials used in the club greatly affects its price. There are expensive clubs that you will find in the market as well as the cheap ones. It is very important that you determine the price of the golf clubs that you need. Set the budget that you will spend for the club and look for those that fit in your budget.

It is very important that you know how to shop online. Technology has done so much to make our lives comfortable. One good way that you can do to make use of technology is by online shopping. The tips mentioned are some of the best that will surely guide you on the things that you may need to do.

 

Josh Santebanes is a father who likes to play golf and billiards. He is also fascinated with airplanes and helicopters. Being a man does not stop him from doing household chores especially in choosing the best tools and accessories that will match the house. He is a father of 3 cute children.