Relaxation: A Key to Winning

Relaxation: A Key to Winning

Article by Barbara Ann Cochran









My guess is that over 99% of the athletes with whom I work, train better than they compete. Relaxation is such an important part of being able to perform to the best of your ability.

I’ve been thinking about how different athletes make that happen. Some athletes find that listening to music—specific music they’ve chosen—helps calm them down. Some athletes use humor and jokes to loosen up. Some athletes find a quiet, meditative place. I always had a routine—warm-up exercises, stretching, visualizing, and deep breathing—that helped me get into the zone.

But there was one experience I had where I was so focused, so in the moment, so much “in-the-zone”, that I did far better than I ever was able to achieve before or after in downhill, an event I feared and dreaded. I did not appreciate the significance of it or really what happened until long after I had retired from ski racing. I had started teaching in high school and coaching field hockey when I began to think about why some athletes shine in clutch situations and why others fall apart.

When I competed in the sixties and early seventies, I raced in three events – the only three events in alpine racing at the time – slalom, giant slalom, and downhill. Slalom was my favorite by far. Giant slalom was challenging, but fun. Downhill was terrifying. I did not like the speed, the turns, or the bumps. Every time I ran it, I prayed that I wouldn’t get hurt.

Yet, in Jackson Hole, Wyoming one year, I ran a downhill better than anyone by a large margin – six seconds to be exact. That would be even better than Roger Bannister breaking the four-minute mile barrier. How did I do it? Here’s my story:

Because downhills are too dangerous without training, every downhill event has two or three days of practice on the course (unlike slalom and giant slalom, which cannot be skied before the race. A competitor can look at the slalom or giant slalom course and study it, but no one can ski the actual gates until the race itself).

Today’s downhills are much more structured than they used to be. Now there are a set number of training runs. Every racer is expected to ski the course from top to bottom. But in my era, every one got as many training runs as they could fit in. Racers started when they got to the start—there was no special order. A competitor could run part of the course, stop, and ski another section.

In the sixties and seventies, the day before the competition, officials ran a “non-stop” to be sure every athlete had at least one complete run from start to finish. It was exactly like the race itself – competitors wore their starting bibs and ran in race order. The racers left at minute intervals and the non-stop was timed. Racers prepared their skis as if they were competing. Everything happened as if it were a race day. The only difference was that it was the last official training run.

That year, my teammates and I were put up with families throughout the town of Jackson. On the morning of the non-stop, our coach drove the rental station wagon throughout town and picked up six of us at the various homes where we were staying. It was early morning (about 6:00 am). After picking up the last two girls, we headed to the mountain, about 30 minutes away.

I was sitting in the middle in the front. The windshield was completely frosted over with the exception of two small circles where the defroster had managed to warm the glass and clear the frost. Because we were in the residential part of town, we had to cross several streets before we got on the highway. The snowbanks were huge, so in order to see into the street, you had to nose the car out slowly until you could see around the wall of snow.

I noticed that at our first intersection, our coach drove through the stop sign. I don’t know if he didn’t see it, or just figured that no one would be on the streets that early. But again at the next intersection, he failed to stop.

We weren’t going very fast, but in the second intersection, there was a car coming that had the right of way. The driver couldn’t stop and hit us broadside behind the passenger seats. No one was seriously hurt, but two girls went to the hospital. One girl had stitches over her eye. The other one was checked out for a bump on her head. The rest of us were picked up by another vehicle and taken to the mountain.

I didn’t realize it at the time, but I went into shock. In the starting gate, I felt nothing. I wasn’t afraid. I wasn’t anxious about the speed. I wasn’t scared of the bump. I wasn’t terrified of going into the air. Nothing. It was as if all my emotions and beliefs about downhill had been lifted from my body.

I just skied the course. I didn’t fight it at all. When I flew off the bump higher than I had ever been in my life, I didn’t react. I just landed softly and finished the course. My sister, Marilyn, looked at the scoreboard and told me, “Boy! Did they mess up your time! They have you winning by six seconds!!!”

When she told me that, I knew there was no mistake – that really was my time. Then she added, “Well. We’ll just have to see what you do tomorrow!” The next day I was back to my normal self – afraid, anxious, nervous, scared. I knew I hated downhill and wasn’t very good at it. Race day I finished six seconds behind the winner.

That was a twelve second spread!! (In ski racing, if you can cut your time by half a second, you’ve made a major improvement). Essentially I had skied the course on race day the same as I had on the non-stop. The only difference was that my emotions were in full control. I was terrified all the way down. I dreaded the bump from the time I left the start. My body fought back with tense muscles, out-of-control thoughts, a pessimistic attitude, and a belief that knew this was one place I didn’t want to be.

The result? A race that was twelve seconds slower. I can’t say I recommend going into shock to relax, but what I do know is that in order to create that focus, that ability to get into “the zone”, gaining control of an athlete’s emotions, thoughts, and beliefs is essential.




About the Author

As a gold medal Olympic skier, Barbara Ann Cochran knows what it takes to achieve peak performance. No matter how much a person has achieved, she helps them climb to their next level by creating success through positive mental preparation. Visit http://www.sportssuccesscoaching.com for more information about her coaching programs.










The Golf Mind: You Will Never Be Golf’s Master

The Golf Mind: You Will Never Be Golf’s Master

Article by Richard Tyler









In this article, we are going to discuss the proper golf mind. Most of us don’t have it. A few, like Tiger Woods, certainly do. Today, we will look at a few essential thoughts that you need to have to improve your golf game.

We have all heard that golf is a game that is played “90% between the ears”. Obviously, this means that the proper golf thoughts are essential. Ironically though, few of us actually think enough about golf before we play. We bash balls for hours at the range and we usually get frustrated with each subsequent poor shot. Yet, this does not count as thought. It is action–physical practice–and it is bad practice at that.

One of the infrequently acknowledged things that we love about sports, and golf in particular, is this: It cannot be mastered.

Yet, each time that we go out to play we attempt to “master” the game and it cannot be done. Thus, we are left feeling dejected and that all of our practice yielded nothing.

Have you ever noticed that you typically play the back nine holes faster than the front nine? If you play a lot of public golf in California, as I do, you surely realize that 18 holes of golf takes a lot time. However, the back nine always goes faster.

Why do people play the back nine faster than the front nine? The reason is this: Golfers start hole #1 with high expectations, expectations of mastery. Their golf dreams for that day are quickly dashed, perhaps even on the first hole, as their hopes of becoming a par golfer are left unrealized.

Then, on the back nine, these people simply relax and play the game, not obsessing about their score–since that was already destroyed with two eights on the front side–and they begin to play better golf.

Two of the keys to great golf are humility and relaxation.

Humility allows us to realize that we can never be golf’s master. It will always be ours. The best female golfer of our day, Annika Sorenstam, has said that she will never be truly satisfied with her results until she shoots a 54. That’s a birdie on every hole which she never accomplished. Golf is a humbling game even for the world’s best golfers.

Allowing yourself to be humbled in the game of golf will allow you to enjoy the game of golf and relax. Relaxation is essential to a great game of golf.

If you are a fan of the game of golf, you watch a lot of it on TV. How often have you seen the best golfers in the world make an ugly swing? It does not happen frequently.

Two of the best golfers on the senior tour right now are Fred Funk and Loren Roberts. Using readily available Taylor Made Drivers, each of them swing easy and relaxed and both drive the golf ball straight down the middle an average of 270 yards.

So the next time you go out for a round of golf, remember two things. One, learn from your mistakes without getting frustrated. You will never be golf’s master. And two, make sure your swing is relaxed and flowing by asking yourself: Would that swing have looked good on TV?



About the Author

Watch these free how to play golf videos to learn how to swing a golf club properly and much more. The author, Richard Tyler, is an avid golfer and proprietor of your home for how to videos, ThisIsHowYouDoIt.com.










How Do I Keep a Guy Always Interested in Me? Learn the Tricks of the Trade to Keep Him Hooked

How Do I Keep a Guy Always Interested in Me? Learn the Tricks of the Trade to Keep Him Hooked

Article by Erich Hines







Meeting that 1 man who can make your heartbeat race and who, you think, has the characteristics that you have been searching for in Mister Ideal, is 1 wonderful moment. There’s 1 shot to impress him and the relaxation of the lifestyle to please him. So what could make this man maintain coming back for you?

An independence that can in no way wane.

Men go right after women who know the greatest way to reside their personal lives. Certain, they do realize that they are in a very connection but they also accept the reality that they are two, separate beings with diverse identities. You might have to have the capability to display him that you are able to caring for your self.

Is he genuinely the 1?

Occasionally, you fall genuinely challenging for a man only to recognize a lot later that you have wasted your time on him. You have received to understand whether your feelings for him are deep sufficient. A guy has to really feel this deep connection with you or he would in no way be enticed to go back once more and once more.

Visually please the guy.

This is really a recognized reality – men are visual beings. They have a tendency to get attracted and remain interested in a lady who understands how you can care for her appears. Remain match and preserve your beautiful system. He’s far more inclined to remain with you if he does not see something to flee from.

Maintain your distance at instances.

1 of the top rated causes that a man would run absent from a lady is her neediness. Cling to your guy and that is the finish of the union! Give him room, respect his privateness and he could be grateful for you. That is the sort of lady that men look for out and remain with.

By no means mildew him into your edition of Mister Ideal.

Accept him for what ever or whoever he’s. You discovered him and loved him as he’s from the onset so why alter him now? In the occasion you want him to wish to arrive back, you have obtained to present him that you are prepared to accept him – flaws and all.

Be there with him by way of thick or thin.

Be sure which you share his triumphant moments too as the not-so-victorious ones. That is your final proof of genuine enjoy for him. Along with a guy who feels loved will stick to you for the relaxation of his lifestyle.

Lure him together with your sexuality.

The lady is God’s final creation – but it is not the least amongst all creatures simply because she’s really the fairest! You’ve every single little bit of weapon in you that might turn on any guy. Use them to your benefit. Just flicker individuals lashes and smile and also you could by now make him mushy-boned!DO YOU WANT TO MAKE YOUR EX FALL FOR YOU ONCE AGAIN?

Yes, it’s still possible. You can get your ex back regardless of whether they already eloped with someone else or not. Of course, you have to know how to do it effectively.



About the Author

I am an newyork girl, my name is Maria Grazia. I am single, 22 y.o., I live in Milan and I am a university student.

How to Pick Out the Best Driver

How to Pick Out the Best Driver

Golf is one sport that is played the world over for the sheer amount of enjoyment that can be had when playing the game! It is one of the few games that is a competitive sport yet something that can be pursued for relaxation and enjoyment. It may not have the pace and frenzy associated with most outdoor sports but relaxes you completely after a round of the same.

Playing golf is no walk in the park. You need to be perfect with your shots; not to mention your eye-contact with the ball and confidence with the golf driver determines the kind of player you’re! Golf drivers that just fit your requirement are pretty hard to find. Actually it is hard to find because it is the weight, the swing and the level of player you’re. Depending on the level of your play, the golf driver is to be chosen. Not all experts need a shorter head; the length of the club and your confidence in swinging makes all the difference. In case you’re a beginner you’ll want to go for a club which has a wider and a heavier head that makes you land near accurate hits every time with a smooth swing.

Golf Equipment worth the Shot!

Choosing proper golfing equipment can be tough and if the ‘toughness’ factor is taken into account, it is the driver which is the toughest to choose and can really be a pain in the neck. Golf drivers are high-precision accessories. The amount of labor and finesse that has gone into the making of a driver makes all the difference. Earlier when the game was just born and not too many materials were known for the construction of sporting equipment, the golf driver was a wooden stick and further on, iron drivers were also tried on an experimental basis!

The wood was found to be too light and the iron was too heavy! Then came stainless steel and that was also used for quite sometime until titanium and aluminum were used as materials in golf drivers. Lightweight and strong that they were, made the perfect driver the golfing world had yet seen! Quite understandably, the drivers constructed out of the two metals gained fast prominence and still today are widely used!

Drivers Galore!

When choosing a driver, the material of the same is very important. There is something known as a degree of loft when using a driver; this is based on the handicap of the player. In easy words, a higher handicap player should use a club with a higher loft than the one who has minimum handicap. Some innovators decided to include both aluminum and titanium in the club and voila! One of the most popular variations of the golf club was born. Here the head is made of the ultra-light and ultra-strong element called titanium which gives balance, loft as well as strength to your shot so that the ball goes really far! With a bit of research and patience it shouldn’t be a difficult task for you to find a driver that suits you just fine!

There are many kinds of drivers and not all are created equal. To find the best golf driver that fits your swing (and budget), go to http://golfequipmentreviewsblog.com where you read personal reviews and compare prices.